
The story of Tamar in the Bible is not one that is taught or preached about very much. She was married to Judah’s son Er, wicked in the LORD’s sight, so the LORD put him to death. Judah told Onan, Er’s brother to sleep with Tamar to give offspring for his brother, but he failed to provide the expected son. Then Judah promised his younger son Shelah to Tamar, but he didn’t keep his promise. What was Tamar to do? Live as a widow all her days? No. She put a veil over her face and posed as a prostitute on Judah’s way into the town of Timnah.
Judah slept with Tamar and she became pregnant. Incest is a sin in any culture, but Tamar felt forgotten, and she resorted to this indecent act to bring her the sought after family offspring. Judah promised her a young goat, but she asked for something in pledge. Judah gave her his seal, cord and staff. When he found out Tamar was pregnant, he ordered her to be burned to death, but she sent him the seal, cord and staff and said, “See if you recognize these” (Genesis 38:25). He did recognize them and said, “She is more righteous than I, since I wouldn’t give her to my son Shelah.” Tamar bore twins and named them Perez and Zerah.
Redeemed, Not Abandoned
The lineage of Christ – the part that says, “Judah, the father of Perez and Zerah, whose mother was Tamar . . . ” is recorded in Matthew 1:3. At first glance, it looks like God rewarded Tamar for her scandalous act. That is not the case. He rescued a courageous woman who could have been forgotten and used her for His divine purpose. Was her act any more a sin than Rehab’s sin of lying to protect the spies in Jericho? Or Abram’s sin of lying to the Pharaoh about Sarai, his wife? Or David’s sin with Bathsheba? No. God can use evil for good. When I think how unjustified this seems, I am reminded how God took the sin of my past and still uses it in my testimony to witness to other women who might feel despair and loneliness. At first I was not comfortable sharing my testimony, but I have grown thankful for all the things that have led me closer to Jesus.
Prayer
Thank you, Lord God, for stories of courageous women in your word that encourage us to be transparent before others so they might relate to your amazing love. In Christ’s precious and powerful name, Amen.

